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Dativa Mukamana afasha abagore n'abakobwa gukuna-guca imyeyo

Mukamana Dative ni umugore uzwi ku izina rya Masenge, akaba yararyiswe kubera akamaro afitiye abakobwa n’abagore batageze mu rubohero (Gukuna), nyuma bashimishe abagabo babo.
Aganira na Bwiza.com, uyu mugore yavuze ko uruhande rumwe ari umuganga urundi akaba umujyanama w’abakobwa n’abagore ku byerekeye imibanire y’abashakanye.
Aha, avuga ko ari muganga gakondo, uvura indwara nyinshi, ariko cyane cyane akaba yibanda ku bijyanye n’ubujyanama ku gitsinagore, uburyo bashimisha abo bashakanye hagendewe ku muco.
Ati: “Murabizi na kera Nyirasenge w’umuntu yabaga ari umuntu ukomeye, abakobwa baraza bakansanga, bati Masenge tubwire, ibyo bintu bita kujya mu rubohero (Gukuna cga guca imyeyo) ni ibiki?, muri iyi minsi abana nta kintu babiziho”.
Akomeza avuga ko hari abamugeraho akabigisha uko bakuna, akabigisha umuco w’uko washimisha umugabo dore ko ubu abana bamwe usanga nta n’ababyeyi cyangwa imiryango bagira.
Avuga kandi ko nyuma yo kubigisha bakagera aho bishimishije, bamwe basubira inyuma bakaza kumushimira ko ingo zabo zubatswe neza, bazi kunezeza abo bashakanye.
Mu gihe hari abibaza bati, ese umugore wabyaye yaca imyeyo bigakunda? Kuri iki, Masenge avuga ko ari ibintu bishoboka cyane.
Ati: “cyane, hari ukuntu umukobwa agira gutya agashaka atarigeze agera mu rubohero, akenshi bangeraho ku bw’ingaruka baba barahuye nazo mu ngo zabo, hari igihe aba yarashatse, umugabo ubikunda, wenda akamubaza ati kuki wowe utameze nk’abandi?.
Hari igihe we aba yarabipingaga yumva ko ntacyo bivuze cyangwa se atarigeze abona ayo mahirwe yo kubyigishwa, yagera mu rwe agahora mu nduru n’umugabo abimuziza, icyo gihe bangeraho nkabashyira mu rubohero”.

Akomeza avuga ko hari n’abagabo bamugeraho bamubwira uburyo abagore babo bataciye imyeyo, bikaba ngombwa ko abahuza, akamuzanira umugore we nawe akamufasha kuyica.
Ubundi ngo gukuna byakagombye gutangira gukorwa ku myaka 10 cga 12, ariko iyo ageze igihe arenza akagera kuri 20 cyangwa 30, ati: ”wenda yarabyaye bisabako,…buriya iyo akiri mutoya umubiri we uba woroshye, urakurura bikaza, ariko ku muntu mukuru we hifashishwa imiti yabugenewe kandi iyo miti nta ngaruka igira, iba itunganyijwe neza”.
Akomeza avuga ko adapfa gukorera ibi aho abonye hose, ko ku ivuriro akoreramo afite icyumba cyabugenewe, ndetse n’igitanda, by’umwihariko ko hari abaza akabaha imiti bazajya bifashisha bakuna mu gihe babyishoboreye, utabibashije akajya afata iminsi akaza akabimukorera kuzageza ku rugero rushimishije.
Ati: “mfite igipimo nkoresha, iyo mbonye yagwije ndamusezerera, iyo bibaye birebire cyane cga bigufi ntabwo aba ari byiza, hari urugero ntarengwa”.
Avuga ko hari imiti ya Kinyarwanda bakoresha irimo amavuta y’inka, ko nka bakera bifashishaga intobo, ariko ku bwe avuga ko atari nziza ko zatera ubundi burwayi.
Ese Gukuna ni iki? Bikorwa gute?
Gukuna, cyangwa se Guca imyeyo nk’uko bamwe babyita ni umuhango wa gikobwa ukorwa mu muco nyarwanda no mu bindi bihugu bya Afurika ugamije gutegura umukobwa kuba umugore ubereye umugabo, utangira umukobwa ari umwangavu kuko umubiri uba utarakomera rimwe na rimwe atarajya mu mihango ya gikobw, Gusa ku bwa Masenge anavuga ko ku bagore babyaye abafasha bigashoboka.
Bikorwa gute?
Wicaza ikibuno hasi, ugashinga ibirenge ku buryo amavi ashobora kugera ku ntugu zombi, ukanyuza amaboko munsi y’ibibero ufite uruvange rw’ibyo ukunisha cyangwa se amavuta y’inka akuze (iyo ari intangiriro), ukuboko kumwe gukurura umushino biteganye.
Kaba kakiri gato noneho kakagenda gakura uko uhataho ukuna, ukururira rimwe ujyana hasi, mu ntangiriro birababaza ndetse rimwe na rimwe ukumva wabireka, ari nayo mpamvu abakobwa ba kera bakuniraga hamwe barenze umwe kugirango batizanye umurindi. Iyo umaze kugira umushino ufatika, ugeraho ugakuna utazura umushino mu bugari bwawo kugirango biwugire mugari, kugeza ugwije” imyugariro”
Masenge avuga ko nubwo hari bamwe afasha gukurura iyi mishino kugeza ku rugero runaka, anavuga ko hari abishyira hamwe bakamutumira kugirango bamarane isoni, akabigishiriza hamwe kandi bakazagera ku ntego.

Akamaro ko gukuna mu gihe cyo gutera akabariro ni akahe?
Nk’uko mu ntangiroro twabikomojeho gato, umugore utarigeze akuna ashobora guhura n’imbogamizi z’uko yasanga umugabo we abikunda, iyo wakunnye biba akarusho kuko umugore wakunnye areta vuba kandi akihuta mu kunyara no mu gusohora, ndetse bifasha umugabo we, akumva ko atarimo kuruhira ubusa, biramunezeza cyane iyo baharuranye ikivi batangiranye (bakarangiriza rimwe).
Umugore utarakunnye ntibivuze ko ari uwo gusendwa, kuko hari n’abadakora ibi byose kandi bagashimisha abagabo babo ariko n’ubwo bwose amajyambere agenda yihuta umugore wakunnye uzi n’ibyiza byabyo mu kunezeza umugabo we nawe aba yifuza ko umwana we abikora.
Kubera ko uyu muhango wa gikobwa wakorerwaga mu gasozi, nko mu gashyamba, abakobwa bitwazaga kujya “guca imyeyo” ari naho havuye iyo mvugo yo guca imyeyo, bakitwaza kujya guca ubwatsi, gutashya inkwi, kujya mu rubohero,…
Ubaye hari icyo ushaka kubaza Mukamana Dative (Masenge) bariza kuri iyi Email:kamikazigentille08@gmail.com cyangwa se ubarize kuri 0785058200! Murakoze.


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